The scoop
Ok, so you've all requested to hear more about Toolman, so here it goes. On the ride down to Louisiana, we sat next to each other in the captain's chairs in the middle of the van. We ended up talking to each other a good portion of the way home about a lot of various things...school, friends, family, etc. etc. Just general getting to know you kind of stuff. Then we got down there Sunday around 12:30ish, but we weren't allowed to work because we had to go through orientation before we went out in the field. Toolman was really upset because he wanted to work...it was the whole reason we were down there. So he managed to find some way to do something...he started moving around fallen lightpoles with a forklift thingy. I was pretty impressed by that because the rest of us were just kinda lollygaggin. This is when I started to pay a little more attention to him. The next day we went to our first work site which was Aunt Sally's, and I just payed attention from a distance and noticed that he worked hard, and not only that he was a pretty sweet guy because he talked to Sally and gave her a hug and stuff. It was cute. So then that evening I took my guitar and went outside to play some praise songs. My new friend Monkey went with me because she can actually sing well, and I can't. Anyway, he came out with us and joined us. At first he kept talking about how he can't sing well and stuff, but then he was singing anyway because he just wanted to praise the Lord. That's rare...a guy who isn't confident in his singing but sings anyway. So then I was really paying attention to him. Different people came and left while we were singing but Toolman always stayed. Then it got down to me, Toolman, Carpenter Girl, and another guy. We all sat around and talked, but eventually it got to be mainly Toolman and I talking. We talked about all kinds of stuff, but mostly photography because it's something he's interested in, and so am I as most of you know. So we talked for about an hour and a half or so before we finally went to bed.
The next day I started to notice a trend. It seemed like whenever we weren't working, Toolman would go to wherever I was and Carpenter Girl would go to wherever he was. Hmmm...interesting. So that night, we all went outside again to praise Jesus which was so cool. Quite a few people were joining us for a while, and it was pretty awesome that I was kinda leading it because I had the guitar. Anyway, my arm got tired after a while so I decided to quit, but then Toolman, Carpenter Girl, this other guy, and I sat around talking. Once again, it was mainly Toolman and I talking until I decided to go to bed.
Then Wednesday came, and this is where the story really starts to take shape. Half way through the day, I hurt my back, so I had to go sit out in the van and try to relax for a while. Toolman was the first person who came specifically to check on me. He just wanted to make sure I was ok. Then we went to the next site. It was only me, Toolman, CG, and Snake Dance there for a while because our leader took the rest of the crew back when he got more supplies. We were not really doing anything productive, but at some point CG said something kinda dumb and Toolman just said jokingly, "Shut up, woman." So then she said that saying woman was like saying go make me a pie. I said it's usually more like, "Go get me a beer woman." So then Toolman goes, "She's right. Tessa, will you please go get me a beer." Now, I know we were just joking around, but he called her woman and called me by my name and said please. Anyway, when we were done, I was going to drive the other van back to camp, so I said "who wants to ride with me?" and Toolman was like, "I do!" then CG followed. Do y'all see the trend? Well, later that evening, we all went to Wal-Mart. When we were getting in the van, CG waited until everyone else got in to make sure she could sit next to Toolman, so not only did she sit next to him, but they had to share a seat. I was not happy, BUT he kept turning around to talk to me during the ride. Then we got to Wal-mart and we all went our seperate ways...and Toolman went with me. We ended up sitting in those kids couches in the toy section and talking for about half an hour about toys and growing up and stuff. Then CG came and found us and saw us together and she was not a happy camper.
Thursday came, and Monkey worked very hard to resolve the problem with CG and succeeded. We all had a girls' night and got her to open up and got to know her better, and everything was fine from there on out. Nothing significant happened with Toolman that day, but I did notice something. I was taking a break while we were working and I said that I couldn't do something because I was too short or something like that and Toolman was nearby. So when I went back into the house, he was doing exactly what I said I couldn't do. It was kinda like indirect teamwork. That evening he also asked me to be his "nametag buddy". Yeah, it sounds dumb, but I thought it was cute. It was kinda our inside thing.
Friday was our last day. Most of the day nothing eventful happened until we were getting ready to leave. I was standing, waiting to get in the van and he came up behind me and started giving me a shoulder rub. I didn't ask him to do it, he just did it. Yeah...yeah. So then we started heading back to Ohio. After a while, Monkey thought it would be a good idea for us all to go around and say something encouraging about each other. So everyone started with me because I was in the back of the van, but when it was Toolman's turn he said he wanted to start in the front and work his way back to me. So when he was talking about everyone else it was a lot of stuff like "nice personality" "good work ethic" , etc. But then he came to me and said that he really liked getting to know me and talking to me on the way down and the night that we talked about photography. He said he felt like we had a lot in common. Then he talked about the day I hurt my back. He said he saw how upset I was because I wasn't able to help anymore and he realized that I was for real. That I was really there to serve God and help people and that he thought it was so cool to see someone so dedicated to Christ. Whoa. I was floored.
So after we all slept for a while and we were getting closer to Ohio, I suggested that we all go to Chuck E. Cheese's for my birthday and Toolman was all about it. So that evening, I sent an e-mail to the whole team and also invited everyone to church since it was my last Sunday playing guitar because I'm going to start running sound again. A couple hours later, Toolman sent an e-mail saying he'd be there.
So Sunday comes, and he actually shows up. I was on cloud nine. It was so cool to see him at my church. After church we all went back to the house and just hung out for a little while until we left for Chuck's. Unfortunatly nobody else could join us for various reasons. But it was fun nonetheless. When we were about to sit down, he said that he was going to go get a drink and asked me if he could get me anything, so he got my drink which I thought was really sweet. There were other little things here and there, but this story is already long enough.
So yeah, there's still a lot missing from the story. I don't know what will come of this. I know that I at least have made a great guy friend, and you never know it could be more. I'm praying that it will be. It would be cool if y'all could pray for it too. A few people have said that they notice "something." So we'll see. Sorry it was so long. I'll keep y'all updated. Lots of love ladies!!!
God bless!
Pepto
P.S. Go to http://www.ob.org/projects/hurricane_relief/blog/tara_smith.asp and scroll down to the "nest of rats" story. That's us and Aunt Sally. Toolman is the guy on the left side of the picture.
